Everything is related. Some personal stuff was affecting my riding and with Selina’s coaching I cleared the block and was back to competing my best.
It sounds simple now, it wasn’t simple when I was stuck.
~Liz Hodges
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I don’t think I can put a value on Selina’s mindset coaching.
It’s priceless. You just don’t get that from any clinic that you go to. Everyone can be taught to ride better, but without the right mindset it doesn’t make a difference. My competition nerves were crippling. No matter how much more I learnt or practiced, it all fell apart when I rode into the camp / arena.
Since coaching I have won and placed and made women’s finals for ABCRA. That’s good, but what matters to me is I having fun again, even at competitions.
Donna Sinclair
If you’re reading this and feeling self-doubt, fear of failure, anxious about being judged and what others think, feeling like you don’t belong, finding excuses not to ride or not to enter that competition or to scratch from that competition you have entered, Selina’s coaching can help turn it around and bring the joy back with your horse.
Somewhere along the way I’d lost the fun and my earlier enjoyment of riding had become an angst-ridden experience. I’ve realised that my perfectionist self has been a fun-sponge and has been sucking away my joy of riding, with my horse increasingly sharing this feeling. I’m very grateful for finding Selina….
I’m at the tail end of Selina’s mindset program and I can genuinely say that no other coach or clinic has been so impactful on my riding. There’s been this fundamental shift in my self-belief. I’ve let go of a whole bunch of crap that had been weighing me down, without me even realising it was there. All the negatives are gone – fear of failure, judgement, expectations. I’m enjoying riding like I did as a child and am in the moment with my horse like never before. And OMG I’m excited to compete again!
~Justine Dean
p.s. Justine has now gone on to ride at Masters Level in Working Equitation and is kicking ass, both competing and having fun while doing it.
Hi Selina,
Thought I’d give you an update on how we’re going since doing the program- not many events due to weather etc, but ventured afar two weeks ago to Nowra for jumping- not only did I drive the truck there and back, but also placed in all classes-
4 & 5 in 90cm and 1st and 2nd in the 100cm- woohoo!!
Always working on my mindset!
Thank you x
Toni Wallace
Note: Receiving texts like this months after coaching is finished make my day.
After six weeks not only had I found my mojo with my riding but personally I was kicking goals!!
I learnt how to believe in myself, have trust, acknowledge my failures and successes
Chardell O’Neill
Before mindset coaching Jane said “my biggest challenge is trust and confidence”.
ONE month later she was riding the trails bitless and not even a halter at home.
Her summary of the results: “It was definitely a confidence thing”.
Jane
After 6 years of playing polo I was looking for a new discipline for myself and my horses. Terrible nerves whilst competing at shows and a feeling of not really fitting into what I was doing had left me feeling lost and disenchanted…. fast forward after mindset coaching – I no longer feel embarrassed that we have tried so many different disciplines – I feel proud that I gave them a shot and that my horses acquitted themselves well. I no longer feel like I “have to” aim for something in particular and “should” be going to every event – should has gone from my vocabulary!
I am enjoying my horses and the things we do – I have opened my eyes and embraced a new sport which I totally love and have found the feeling of community and belonging which Selina had identified was missing from my horse activities. I now feel excited for the future and am so grateful to Selina. I still get nervous heading to a show or event but it’s more in anticipation and excitement than stupid overwhelming nerves.
~ Sue Croser